Sunday, March 22, 2009

The Blessings of the Temple

I think that everyone who reads my blog knows that I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (aka the Mormons). In response to HBO's re-enactment of an LDS temple endowment session on the television series "Big Love" last week, the Church posted the video above to YouTube as part of its Mormon Messages series. Additionally, the Church posted this well-written press release to its website. This press release has been quoted by countless individuals in the news media over the past two weeks. I appreciate the humilty and professionalism with which the Church has approached this issue and the way in which it has responded.

Please know that I post these items not to be derogatory in any way to HBO or to start a debate on this blog (I leave the debates to my brothers), but to share the my beliefs regarding the temple with friends who are not members of the Church and who may (or may not) have viewed last week's episode of Big Love. Should you wish to discuss the temple or the episode of Big Love (which I have not seen, but have seen photos of and discussed with other friends) with me, I am happy to do so. However, I request that you not post your questions on the comments to my blog. Please send me an email at jenfrowe@gmail.com.

The Publicity Dilemma
SALT LAKE CITY 9 March 2009 Like other large faith groups, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints sometimes finds itself on the receiving end of attention from Hollywood or Broadway, television series or books, and the news media. Sometimes depictions of the Church and its people are quite accurate. Sometimes the images are false or play to stereotypes. Occasionally, they are in appallingly bad taste.

As Catholics, Jews and Muslims have known for centuries, such attention is inevitable once an institution or faith group reaches a size or prominence sufficient to attract notice. Yet Latter-day Saints – sometimes known as Mormons - still wonder whether and how they should respond when news or entertainment media insensitively trivialize or misrepresent sacred beliefs or practices.

Church members are about to face that question again. Before the first season of the HBO series Big Love aired more than two years ago, the show’s creators and HBO executives assured the Church that the series wouldn’t be about Mormons. However, Internet references to Big Love indicate that more and more Mormon themes are now being woven into the show and that the characters are often unsympathetic figures who come across as narrow and self-righteous. And according to TV Guide, it now seems the show’s writers are to depict what they understand to be sacred temple ceremonies.

Certainly Church members are offended when their most sacred practices are misrepresented or presented without context or understanding. Last week some Church members began e-mail chains calling for cancellations of subscriptions to AOL, which, like HBO, is owned by Time Warner. Certainly such a boycott by hundreds of thousands of computer-savvy Latter-day Saints could have an economic impact on the company. Individual Latter-day Saints have the right to take such actions if they choose.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as an institution does not call for boycotts. Such a step would simply generate the kind of controversy that the media loves and in the end would increase audiences for the series. As Elder M. Russell Ballard and Elder Robert D. Hales of the Council of the Twelve Apostles have both said recently, when expressing themselves in the public arena, Latter-day Saints should conduct themselves with dignity and thoughtfulness.

Not only is this the model that Jesus Christ taught and demonstrated in his own life, but it also reflects the reality of the strength and maturity of Church members today. As someone recently said, “This isn’t 1830, and there aren’t just six of us anymore.” In other words, with a global membership of thirteen and a half million there is no need to feel defensive when the Church is moving forward so rapidly. The Church’s strength is in its faithful members in 170-plus countries, and there is no evidence that extreme misrepresentations in the media that appeal only to a narrow audience have any long-term negative effect on the Church.

Examples:
- During the Mitt Romney election campaign for the presidency of the United States, commentator Lawrence O’Donnell hurled abuse at the Church in a television moment that became known among many Church members as “the O’Donnell rant.” Today, his statements are remembered only as a testament to intolerance and ignorance. They had no effect on the Church that can be measured.

- When the comedy writers for South Park produced a gross portrayal of Church history, individual Church members no doubt felt uncomfortable. But once again it inflicted no perceptible or lasting damage to a church that is growing by at least a quarter of a million new members every year.

- When an independent film company produced a grossly distorted version of the Mountain Meadows Massacre two years ago, the Church ignored it. Perhaps partly as a result of that refusal to engender the controversy that the producers hoped for, the movie flopped at the box office and lost millions.

- In recent months, some gay activists have barraged the media with accusations about “hateful” attitudes of Latter-day Saints in supporting Proposition 8 in California, which maintained the traditional definition of marriage. They even organized a protest march around the Salt Lake Temple. Again, the Church has refused to be goaded into a Mormons versus gays battle and has simply stated its position in tones that are reasonable and respectful. Meanwhile, missionary work and Church members in California remain as robust and vibrant as ever, and support for the Church has come from many unexpected quarters — including some former critics and other churches.

Now comes another series of Big Love, and despite earlier assurances from HBO it once again blurs the distinctions between The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the show’s fictional non-Mormon characters and their practices. Such things say much more about the insensitivities of writers, producers and TV executives than they say about Latter-day Saints.

If the Church allowed critics and opponents to choose the ground on which its battles are fought, it would risk being distracted from the focus and mission it has pursued successfully for nearly 180 years. Instead, the Church itself will determine its own course as it continues to preach the restored gospel of Jesus Christ throughout the world.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

For Caroline...

My sister-in-law Sheree is really busy being a mom and a patent attorney in Washington, D.C.; so, she hasn't updated her blog since last October. My cousin Caroline gets to see my nephews Jack and Aiden more often than Tyler. Plus, my sisters-in-law Cindy and Melissa are stay-at-home moms and have more time for things like blogging. Caroline hasn't seen Tyler since Christmas and asked for some updated photos of him. Here you go Caroline...
Tyler is 8 months old in these photos (taken the beginning of March when everyone was home for Grandma Carpenter's funeral).

Tyler LOVES to be in the bouncer. It's absolutely one of his favorite things to do! (Right after playing with the phone.)

Tyler is working on crawling. He's got one arm and leg down pretty well. So, he would not be standing here if Aunt Melissa weren't behind him. He loved being outside with Aiden.


Tyler loves to hold his own spoon (even when it's not time for him to be eating). Here he is with Uncle Bryan, our cousin Denise, and his daddy Eric.

Grandma's funeral cut right into naptime. Here's Daddy putting him to sleep...as you can see from the next photo, it worked.

Here's Tyler with his Mommy, Sheree.

Tyler loves baseball hats. Here he is playing with our cousin Darin's hat. He managed to get the hat off of Darin's head before he was done playing.

Tyler doesn't get to watch TV. But, if it's on at home, he's usually drawn to sporting events thanks to the influence of his daddy. He wore his BYU shirt every Saturday that there was a football game this past Fall. Here he is joining in with the Thomas obsession with Aiden, Jack, Nana, and Aunt Jen.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Shocking...


Wanna know how to shock a group of 12-18 year old young women? Try serving them green eggs and ham! Yes, tonight at Young Women's we had a late Dr. Seuss/St. Patrick's Day party. Their reactions were pretty funny!

Friday, March 13, 2009

Catching up with blogging...

So, can you tell that January and February were just a little busy for me??!??!?!?!?!?!? I did a bunch of travel for work and a little bit of travel for fun. Here are some photos to catch you up on what I've been doing...

Late birthday celebration (1/20/09) with the Hills in Concord.
Austin

Conner

YW's Valentine's Day Activity (Serah, Serina, Youjin, Michelle, Yeri, Adreana)

International Dinner with YM and YW (I even cooked Korean Soup for this activity)


I flew to Concord on February 21st for 24 hours for Allyson Hill's 40th birthday party. It was a whirlwind trip, but a lot of fun. Jason surprised Allyson by planning that two of her sisters and her brother come to the party. One flew in from Florida and the other two came in from Utah. While the siblings hung out in Walnut Creek for the day, Jason & I planned and prepared a big dinner for Allyson and her family and friends.

I made Allyson's six-layer birthday cake...Chocolate Heaven

March 6-7, 2009, my brothers, their wives, and boys were all home for Grandma Carpenter's funeral. Here are some of the "fun" pictures from the weekend.

Tyler and Aiden playing in Dad & Mom's front yard.

This is Aiden. Jack and Aiden love this horse that belonged to my brothers when we were growing up.

Jack loved wandering around the cemetary...there were lots of empty vases to look into and dirt and grass to walk around on. He had a great time!

Aiden and Aunt Jen

I was in charge of the display table in the foyer at the church for Grandma's funeral. Except for the religious painting on the wall, the other paintins are all watercolors that Grandma painted.